just flip back your hair and wink that winning wink!

okay, honestly 100% i would say that i have been redundantly lovey dovey about L.yeap, that would be the perfect description about my blog. i don't see me writing about anything other than friends, family, hadzwan or makeups hahahahaaaaa =) i do write about musics and books and movies i watch hear and there, but i feel that too i don't write quite often.well, they say you got to write what you feel like writing, and what you're really honest about, and i'm just taking a leaf from everyone else's book =D



okay, today after class, as always, we had lunch together, and as always, picking up a place to eat is a problem. we did once or twice resolve it by "latalilatalitamplom" cuz there's just too many of us and everyone prefers different places. but today, we went and ate at Kapitan Bangsar. not bad at all, until it started raining. everything with the friends was the best, and it gets better when the steamy questions rolled in...


so one of us asked this: what's wrong with a girl making the first move?


hmmphh. sounds familiar to me =P


when i firssssssst started to know hadzwan, i checked out his Friendster Account (sorry la dey, time tu mukabuku takde lagi!)
, and his layout, his music, even some of his pictures were about this one band- My Chemical Romance. i know the band, but it wasn't my type of band. the music of my choice was never louder than the words, and to me, MCR rank just right to blowing off the eardrums. heheheee. but what to do, had to make the move or else, right? =)


so i asked, just to be friendly at first, through friendster comment box :
oh, minat MCR ey?,"

and of course if we hit somebody with what they like, they'll be all pleased. hadzwan was just like everyone else, he went on about how he adores the group hahah! and can even memorize every syllabus in the song, like every woooooo and yeaaaaaahhhh, i would call. so in order for me to be in the same wavelength with him, i know i got to talk MCR language soon enough. so i dug in, i search for the songs and listened to them, i watched the videoclips over and over again on youtube. zah would say, gigih, if she had been there.


then i always popped the overly-thought questions, "eh, kamu dah dengar lagu die yang baru tu?," "videoclip die best kan?," "Mikey Way superb kan?," . and he went to see the concert come more... i don't know if i sounded convincing enough, but he did entertain my questions =D


that didn't last long. mostly because it didn't need to, the rest of our story was marked in different songs by then =) =) =)


..but my point being is, it's not wrong for a girl to make the first move. in fact, i've known quite a number of girls who use the similar approach like i do.it wouldn't seem out of the way for a girl to say hi first, or to smile first. i do agree that certain actions are limited, like, they couldn't be too intimidating or too demanding, but if you're confident enough, it'll be either your way or the highway=) so i say, no worries. it'll all depend on you. if waiting for a boy to start is going to take forever, then hell be with it. you know you can do better than that. whatever the result is in the end, you'll be glad that you'd try, and got nothing to lose!







my verdict on this, personally? it almost always works..