Ladies and their big L.

opps.sebelum ape2, saye nak terangkan kat sini yang gambar di atas diambil from my friend's blog, Min, saye harap awak bagi saye ambil gambar nie and letak kat blog saye even saye x mintak kebenaran pon heheee tapi ade headnote name awak di situ.Min punye.

erm.one or two days nie ade je kawan2 saye yang hadapi problem L.bukan Loss of weight ye (which i don't think for us girls, that is consider a problem pun.we welcome loss of weight kan?hehee).ini problem LOVE.the big L.

if saye nak cerite secara detail kat sini memang sampai pagi esok pun belum tentu habis lah.so, its enough for me to say that as friends, we all involve in the complicated games love has created and to make matters worse, we all seems to be in this huge dynamo effect.taw x, yang macam once orang nie dah kena, orang seterusnye pulak yang akan kena.well, its not as creepy as in final destination, tapi everyone of us share the same piece of cake from it.

tambah-tambah lagi, kitorang sume nie orang perempuan and almaklumlah, hidup kitorang pun dah cukup complicated sampai kadang-kadang kitorang sendiri tak faham ape yang kitorang buat and nak tunjukkan.saye teringat kawan saye, Shahrul dan Syakirin pernah cakap,"kalau kawan perempuan aku cakap yang die x suke kat sorang laki nie, aku mesti risau dah..sebab ape yang diorang betul-betul maksudkan is diorang suke kat laki tu".saye cube jelaskan yang perempuan nie x suke tunjuk terang-terang,diorang suke bagi maksud tersirat dan lelaki lah yang kena figure out, tapi diorang terus defeat kan kate-kate saye. "kenape korang mesti buat macam tu?kesian la kat kitorang..kitorang pun ade perasaan nak tau jugak.kalau ko suke aku, cakap lah..kite couple, habis cerita"

kenape ye? saye pon xde jawapan untuk soalan mereka tu.tapi ape-ape pun i still think women are special in that sense.forgive me for being a feminist.oh, i take that back.i'm proud to be a feminist, no offence.

bagi saye, and this is really my own personal opinion, perempuan boleh menyenangkan dan menyusahkan juge hidup seseorang lelaki.but in any form, lelaki tak boleh hidup tanpa seorang perempuan.betullah bak kata pepatah, di sebalik setiap kejayaan lelaki tu, ade seorang perempuan di belakang yang menyokongnye dan juge, secerdik-cerdik lelaki boleh tertewas juge dengan sebodoh-bodoh perempuan.just take a look at Cleopatra and (i dunno how to spell the name here) Ceaser. sampai kalah dalam peperangan. saye x suke gunekan perumpamaan ni, tapi its crucial to get my point across.Nabi Adam a.s juge telah dipujuk rayu oleh Siti Hawa untuk memakan buah larangan di syurga (setelah dihasut Syaitan) sehinggalah kedua-duanya diturunkan ke dunia.

untuk semua kawan-kawan perempuan saye,each and every one of us is special in our own way.without you, the world wouldn't know love so warm and tender.be proud of who you are.if you're in love, rejoice every second of it and take it to the max (marriage, as i always pray for you).make sure your man knows what you are worth of and better still, make sure you know exactly how ypu're worth of.untuk yang masih single, don't fret.life is too short, with too many unhappy endings and too much misery for you to worry about your condition.just go out there and have fun.jangan fikir ape-ape.i always believe in this; when you stop looking, it'll come to you.jadi bergembiralah dengan hidup kite sebab setiap kite special.for God's sake,we're WOMEN!

Bella- the past banyak mengajar kite tentang the big L nie, tapi aku bersyukur sebab mase aku tengah belajar and jatuh dulu, aku ada kau.tak susah untuk aku bangun semula selepas tu.terima kasih..dan aku doakan kau sampai ke jinjang pelamin.jangan keras hati sangat, kay?

Ara- aku tak pernah jumpa lagi perempuan yang se-independant dan sekuat kau.semua benda kau mampu buat sendiri.i admire you for that, and for always be there whenever i needed you to.dari segi L, aku rase Tuhan dah buka banyak pintu untuk kau, cume bagi aku, kau terlalu berhati-hati untuk masuk ke dalam.at certain points, bagus kau macam tu.tapi aku berharap yang kau takkan terlalu takut untuk mencuba selepas jatuh dan berani macam dalam hal-hal lain.aku gembira dengan keadaan kau sekarang and aku harap kau happy.

Ayie- i don't know what to say about you and hadi but all i can see is that you guys are meant for each other, whatever the boundaries are.maybe the length of your relationship does that,you're happily exhausted with each other.all i can say is that i love you, thanks for showing me that everything is worth a try when you want something to be fixed and thanks for showing me that while you're in love, you can't neglect yourself and your future.

Myra-i think we have so much in common, seriously.we both had a terrible break-up, we both can't seem to get over it yet but we're both happy in our position now.well, practically happy i would say, not overly happy like we once been.lai rase kite kena terima yang setiap L tu berlainan tapi x semestinye kite x boleh bahagia.semuanya bergantung pade diri kite sendiri untuk create the happiness.i'm grateful to see you being so strong and firm because you make me strong too.and don't worry, lai x kisah tau kena kejut lagi just to hear your fury over your ex.hehee :)

Zah-zah selalu keep lai grounded each time lai hadapi masalah L.you remind me of more important things, that is parently love.L dari segi lain boleh datang dan pergi, tapi bukan pada orang tua kite, jadi kite kena selalu ingat tu.terima kasih untuk semua nasihat zah.and dari segi L, i remember you're the one other people so much wanted to help (ingat lagi kat tasik 12th?) and despite everything that happens, you know to to pull on a strong face.i admire that of you..don't worry kay, what's going to come, will come in the end.

Deline-hehee D..don't we always share this conversation?we wear them out a bit right?lai nak D tau yang D banyak banyak banyak tolong lai dalam semua problem L lai.i always want to hear from you first.thanks for opening the door at 2a.m last year D, thanks for picking up the phone at 3a.m and thanks for sending healing messages in 4a.m.i appreciate u so much..D, lai tau D akan jumpe your soulmate jugak satu hari nanti.so right now, be happy with your life sebab nanti mase D dah occupied, kitorang dah x boleh nak sangat2 have fun dgn D lagi dah.. (somehow, a part of me don't want to lose you to a guy)hehee and i don't have a better compliment than that.

Mun-aku mengaku aku sentiase tak faham dengan care ko and boyfriend kau.tapi aku faham yang setiap orang tu care L lain-lain.and maybe care kau unusual sikit bagi aku, tapi asalkan kau gembira, xde masalah..kau antara kawan aku yang kuat, jadi aku tau kau pon akan kuat jugak bile hadapi masalah L.stakat nie aku x pernah jumpe lagi lah masalah L kau yang x setel.

Emilyn-aku baru tau masalah L kau baru-baru nie je, and aku tak pasti sama ada aku layak tulis bagi pihak kau.cume ape yang boleh aku cakap, cerite kau banyak wat kan aku belajar.aku tak pernah ade kawan yang sepanjang masalah L die, die akan toleh belakang and forgive everything.you have so much talent inside of you and so much beauty.aku doakan kau, satu hari nanti dapat jumpe L yang betul..aku takkan putus-putus doakan tu untuk kau.

Min-cik shahrukh!heheee..L probs?i don't really know ur condition now but judging from ur blog, i can say that cupid is not working so well for your story.min jangan lemah! min kena kuat! at least, dalam ramai-ramai kite, Min paling tau macam mane nak setelkan masalah L.i just don't want you to worry to much and this is the best time to find out what you really want in L and what you're worth of.ur a diamond, babe.i'm saying that to you.

Ainaa-nak tau tak, sebabkan kau lah aku minat nak tulis blog2 nie (hahaa takde kena mengena

sekejap).walaupun kite tak pernah rapat, tapi aku rase melalui blog kau, aku dapat kenal kau.and aku tau walaupun sikit pasal L kau.tak lain daripada orang lain kan?harapan aku, kau kuat and tabah and just go on with your life happily.and ingat, what goes around comes around..it happens to me.so, u don't have anything to regret okay?i love you :)bulan puase nie, sambut baik-baik okay?

Kak Yang-hehee..boleh tak letak kak yang the last one?save the best for last la..emm.rase2nye, kak yang paling banyak tau pasal L syira and kak yang dah boleh nilai mane satu yang syira bawak balik tu yang baik or tak baik.jadi, syira tak teragak2 nak mintak nasihat drpd kak yang.thabks untuk semuanya.thanks sebab selalu suruh syira jage wan baik2.and thanks sebab accept wan.syira doakan kak yang dgn Ae pun happy and cepat2 lah sikit......rumah kite dah lame tak dengar bunyi kompang tau!

xoxo

lylasyahirah